It’s Not OK If You’re Not OK

If your life feels like it’s falling apart. If it’s exploded into a million little bits. If you’re feeling down and struggling to get back up again. It may be that you need some help. Some things can’t be carried alone. Sometimes we need a helping hand.

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Hi, I’m Ian

I am a counsellor, hypnotherapist, and, recently, a writer too. I have practiced as a psychotherapeutic counsellor for more than twenty years and as a hypnotherapist for more than ten years.

I studied Psychology and Philosophy at university and then went on to gain professional qualifications in counselling, psychotherapy and hypnotherapy, a masters in philosophy of the mind and lots of other qualifications in various forms of mental health practice. Most importantly, I am a full-time practising counsellor/therapist and have been for many years.

About this website

As a seasoned counsellor and therapist, I’ve sat with countless individuals who feel life is just too much sometimes. And let me tell you, I’ve been there too! I understand that crippling sensation, the weight of the world pressing down on your shoulders, and the struggle of figuring out the next step.

Life can seem like a maze without an exit, a search for meaning that often feels fruitless. And let’s face it, life can be downright brutal. Pain is a part of the package, an unavoidable reality. However, I firmly believe that while pain may be inevitable, endless suffering isn’t. We’re stronger than we give ourselves credit for – resilient, capable, and powerful.

Sometimes, all it takes to unlock this resilience is a little support from someone who’s navigated these rough terrains. That’s where the power of psycho-therapeutic practices comes in. They’re not just jargon and textbook theories; they’re practical tools that can help lighten the load of suffering and pave the way forward.

While I continue my counselling work, I’ve also set up this website as a contact point for those who’ve come across my books and wish to know more about the person behind the pages. If you’ve read one of my works and have questions, want to delve deeper, or simply want to connect, you’re in the right place.

My books can be found in most major retail outlets, but they’re also available directly from me via Blossom Books. This isn’t just another bookstore. Blossom Books is a trove of resources for those seeking genuine, practical advice that doesn’t sugarcoat the realities of life. Each book is penned by practicing clinicians, people who’ve dedicated their lives to understanding and guiding others through life’s complexities. These aren’t quick reads whipped up by folks who’ve skimmed a few self-help books, these are insightful writings from qualified professionals.

So, if you’re in search of authenticity, if you’re ready to face life’s challenges head-on, you’ve found your ally. Let’s navigate this journey together.

I made this site for you: to provide support that works, has been proven to work, and doesn’t suck.

I cannot stand the words ‘Get over it’. All of us are under such pressure to put our problems in the past tense. Slow down. Don’t allow others to hurry your healing. It is a process, one that may take years, occasionally, even a lifetime – and that’s OK. ​

Beau Taplin